First email for online dating
Don’t try and be funny I’ve seen SO MANY messages from my female friends of guys trying to be sarcastic or use humor in their messages, but since their idiot cavemen it comes off as rude, cynical or awkward.Like I see what they were “trying” to say in their messages, but since they don’t know how to write it just came off as rude.But believe it or not I actually re-read my messages many times, checking for spelling and grammatical errors.Here are a few screen shots of a few of the last messages I sent out. And if it doesn’t, that’s fine, I get it, the attractive guy who just writes “hey” will get a response, only because he’s attractive.The first thing you read in the post was a bold face lie.I don’t actually know “How to Write the Perfect First Message”, and since I’m being honest, the title of this post is mostly for SEO reasons.How I demonstrate I actually took the time to read her profile is by commenting on something specific mentioned in her profile (DUH).Typically, it’s something complementary on something she has mentioned as a passion, interest or career. ” Objective 2: Show we have similar interest/things in common Okay, you’ve proven you’ve read her profile, now you need to demonstrate you actually have things in common.
Preferably, open ended questions, in regards to her profile.Moreover, well-written text messages make you look definitely more mature and intelligent.Okay, I’m just going to admit it, and come out and say it.By the way, complimenting a woman on her personality is not being done often, so you’ll definitely stand out.Also keep in mind that bad grammar, spelling mistakes and poor language are huge turnoffs.